A new year usually brings some resolutions for most of us. Aside from the obvious of wanting be more healthy or more active, we also look for ways for our lives to be easier.
We feel the need to organize and declutter our belongings. We go through items and decide whether we have used them over the course of the last year and then decide if we will use them in the future. We rationalize the items we want to keep that hold sentimental value or that we hold onto ‘just in case’. Not that this process isn’t helpful; many of us find it necessary to feel more clear and able to move onto the next year with a clean slate.
The problem is that we make room by getting rid of stuff, only to fill it with more stuff. It is different stuff, but stuff nonetheless.
So what if we didn’t replace the items with other items? What would happen to us? Would we feel like we were lacking something? or…would we feel like we were freer?
In the past I have tried to stick to the rule of ‘if I buy something, something else has to go” If I bought a new sweater (well…used more like), then I would have to give away a sweater I hadn’t worn in a while. This kept the growth of stuff to a nil. However, this year I am going to try to learn to live without the replacements as well. If I get rid of a sweater, there will be no need to get another sweater for example. The purchases will only be necessity based.
Using this logic, I am assuming, I have mostly what I need (aside from food obviously), so I will check in on occasion and let you know how I am doing with this. The goal in this little experiment is to acknowledge that we have way more than we need. The result I hope is that without replacing items I give away or purge from my home, that the temptation or ‘need’ to replace will wain. With that, less stuff happens.